Woman lied that I got her pregnant

Dear Pastor,

I have been a regular listener to your show. My wife and I do not go to bed until you sign off.

You are never wrong for my wife, but sometimes I think you should ease up on the men, especially those who allow women to fool them. You can't do anything wrong for some of these women. Whenever I tell my wife to stop listening because I want some pleasure, I can't get a thing from her. Anyhow, we enjoy your show and we wished it were longer at nights.

We have six children who are very loving and helpful to us. We are church people. When we met and got married, there are those who said the marriage wouldn't work because I was not an educated man. But we have been together now for many years and my wife has taught me a lot. I have never taken home any sexually transmitted infection to her and neither has she. But she is very jealous. One time a girl accused me of having sex with her and getting her pregnant. My wife invited her to the house and decided to question her. When she saw me, she told my wife that she made a mistake, I was not the person who had sex with her; it was my twin brother. How could a woman make such a mistake?

My twin brother said he has never met the girl. We chased her out of our house and that was the end of our contention. So, pastor, go easy on some of the guys. Many of them don't know what they are doing or saying. It is not every time that a man's name is called that he is guilty. I am sure you know what I mean. Take good care of yourself, pastor.

D.T.

Dear D.T.,

I would say that you are to go easy on your wife. She is a wonderful woman, and I am glad that I have a big supporter in your house.

Not only is she educated, but she has common sense. Although you want sex all the time from her, she knows that you ought to keep a balance. Only a good woman would be willing to meet with any woman who calls her husband's name concerning infidelity and try to hash the matter out. You are indeed a fortunate man. Your wife has confidence in you and she knows that there are women who told lies about men. There are vicious liars and your wife was able to intelligently deal with the matter of pregnancy.

I am glad that the relationship with your wife and yourself is intact. Continue to take care of each other and when it is possible, both your wife and you should come by and visit me.

Pastor